PinnedPublished inUpbuildGoldman Sachs Bonus Day and the Entitled EgoTo the outside world, today is just a normal weekday in January. On Wall Street, today is anything but normal. Today is Comp Day, the day…Feb 20, 2022Feb 20, 2022
PinnedPublished inUpbuildTrading Derivatives and the Shame-Based Fear of Being OrdinaryIt is November 2010 on the Goldman Sachs trading floor in New York City. It is just two years removed from the depths of the Global…Jul 10, 20204Jul 10, 20204
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Published inUpbuildFrom “It Happened TO Me” to “It Happened FOR Me”There is somebody who is important to me in my life who is not talking to me. It’s painful. It’s painful because I love him, and I’d really…Feb 17, 20232Feb 17, 20232
Published inUpbuildI Dislike In You What I Dislike In MeAfter being abroad for most of my adult life, I have been back in the US living with and spending time with my parents the last few months…Jul 23, 20221Jul 23, 20221
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The Five Elements of TrustIdentifying the specific gaps in trust is the key to rebuilding itAug 31, 2021Aug 31, 2021
Published inUpbuildLove In The WorkplaceEight years ago, one of the best bosses I ever had brought me into a conference room after a heated exchange during which I had gone…Jul 28, 2021Jul 28, 2021
Published inUpbuildThe Salt in the Dish (Finding our Humility)“I am just the salt in the dish.”Apr 3, 2021Apr 3, 2021